Thursday, March 31, 2011

HEALING...it's a PrOcEsS--RANDOM THOUGHTS


Healing..it's a PRO-cess. A difficult one, one that requires precise execution, strength, and a lot of determination. The will, the will to move forward from something that has drastically changed your life through some kind of loss always proves to be one of the most challenging fetes to overcome. Experiencing a loss, whether it is through death, relationships, a job, or whatever YOU deem important is one of the most hurtful and painful experiences. Experiences. Yes, experiences. Through every hurt and every loss, it becomes an experience. One that we must go through to learn from, to love from (yes, LOVE), and most importantly OVERCOME …

I always say through chaos we find order-and in some strange way, through every hurt we find joy. There must be a reason why we go through these things. Right? I can't imagine that this kind of thing "JUST HAPPENS"...it wouldn't be fair, would it? But, then again, what is fair? In all "fairness" (lol) we wouldn't understand true happiness had we never been hurt, rightfully so.

But, how do we heal? How do you let go of that one thing that you always wanted and you finally get and then lose? How does one cope with that? Those are the answers that I seek to find with you all as we journey along this road of healing, this painful road. Through this blog we will share stories, cry together, laugh together, and most importantly HEAL 2gether...what I do know (from experience) is that every day things will be a little easier and the sun will shine a little brighter. Hang in there YOU are not ALONE. This is a J O U R N E Y friends.